If more couples would honestly and genuinely ask each other this question on a regular basis, happier couples would exist everywhere! Here are a few things to keep in mind:
1) When you ask your partner this question, you must do so from a place of real desire to learn about how you're doing and what areas you could improve. You also want to listen with the understanding that your partner is trying to be closer to you by providing the feedback and that by working on the items they share with you, you can be closer to them too. Listen close, thank your partner, and then go to work!
2) When you are the person answering this question, keep in mind that praise about the areas they are doing well is just (if not more!) important as sharing the items that they can improve. Help them know the good along with the hard so that they can continue to strengthen the good while focusing on the hard. Also, remember to reassure at the end of the conversation your love for them, and that it is your desire for deeper connection that has motivated you to share the items you have shared. Then request their feedback for you with a humble desire to improve.
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